What Women Want?
This question has been raised ages back when men were trying to understand women and their needs and requirements. Unfortunately, till today this question seems to be unanswered and maximum men fails to understand that what their woman actually want. This usually leads to quarrels amongst couples and end up a healthy relationship.
Well, there is no answer to some questions but before getting answer to your query you need to understand few things about women.
Women are the beautiful creation of God. Without women there would be no love and life on earth.
WOMAN means (W)ho completes (O)ne (Man).
Woman means love, care, nurturing, graceful, mother, daughter, wife, sister etc. But only these words cannot describe a woman. Because woman also means power, furious, intelligent, creator and a destroyer as well, etc.
In short a woman is a SHERO i.e. a portmanteau(blend of) of SHE and Hero.
I am a Woman
Being a woman myself I would say that “Yes, I agree that it is very difficult to understand us”. As sometimes we just want some simple things but men fail to understand that.
I would like to quote my personal example. I expect that my boyfriend/husband should at least make me feel special on special days like birthday, Valentine’s day ,Anniversary, etc. Making me feel special doesn’t always mean that I need a 24 carat diamond ring or celebrations at 5 star hotels.
I simply expect a bunch of roses, a small card expressing his feelings towards me, a loving hug and I would love if my boyfriend would cook a little surprise for me. Forgot to mention that I also love cakes(I hope he is reading this).
Anyway, these are not the expectations of every woman. There are always exceptions (Gold Diggers :P)
Understand what she want?
But if you have a true lady beside u, then just understand the below points about what she want :-
1) Respect us.
2) Stop judging us and at least listen to us. Out of anger, anxiety and mood swings we might bring the shit out of us but at that moment all we want is someone beside us to listen to us and then cuddle us instead of judging us.
3) Give us freedom to work where we want, wear what we want and let us eat what we like. We know our limits.
4) Love us unconditionally. Even if we are not waxed, looking ugly, hair messed up, etc. Accept us as we are.
5) Trust us. We are loyal to you if you are loyal to us.
6) Freedom to give birth to a child or to abort one.
7) Never comment on our looks and dressing. Everyone have a different style and we love ourselves the way we are. Every woman is having a unique identity.
8) Help us in the daily household work.
9) Help and boost us to build our individual identity.
10) Give us some Me Time/ Personal Space.
Last but not the least “PLEASE GIVE US COMPLIMENTS”.
We absolutely love all the compliments and these compliments give us confidence to face the world fearlessly.
If any woman is reading this then here is the compliment for u:
“You are beautiful. You are an individual identity. No one can replace you. World needs women like you. Keep growing.”
If any man is reading this then here is the compliment for u:
“Thank you for reading this to understand your woman. I hope and pray that she loves u back unconditionally like you do. You are a true gentleman”
Now I am sure you are clear about what women want.
Don’t tangle her in chains but let her fly and explore the world. And I promise, in return u will earn respect and love from her. I hope this article brings a small change in your life to build a healthy relationship.
DS3026
With loads of love from to all the Hunks and Diva’s out there.
By: DS3026
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